Like the Civil War pit brother against brother, the incivility of this election year pits brother and sister against sister. The first family shots were fired in November 2003, fueled by booze, Michael Moore, and jet lag. The resulting hangovers brought about an uneasy truce until August 2004. Then the email missile barrage began, aimed strategically at the sister who refused to commit to vote for John Kerry. That one would be me. My treason was saying that while I might not vote for Bush, I wasn’t going to vote for Kerry simply because he wasn’t Bush.